Coping with Causing a Serious Accident
A Site for Information, Support, and Healing
Who We Are
We are good people who have unintentionally harmed others, in accidents occurring on the roads, at work, at play, or around the home. I call us CADI’s (Causing Accidental Death or Injury). Most of us feel grief, guilt, and distress about our accidents. Over time, we learn that our mistake does not have to define us.
I am a social psychologist and educator. I am also a CADI, as a result of an accident in which an 8-year old boy ran in front of my car and was killed. I have been talking with and writing about CADIs for over ten years.
There is no easy path to peace. Each of us must find our own way through this dark night of the soul. Although we cannot change what happened, we can control how we respond. I believe that CADI’s face three challenges:
- Coping with emotional distress;
- Wrestling with responsibility and with moral injury;
- Honoring our experience, and those we harmed, by becoming better, stronger people. In this, we find hope and growth.
In this site, I share information and resources that may be helpful to you. I encourage you to share your ideas and experience. You can write me privately here, or add your comments so that other readers can benefit from your input.
Accidental Impacts Fellowship Meeting Dates & Times:
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|January 17, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|February 21, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|March 21, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|April 18, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|May 16, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|June 20, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|July 18, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|August 15, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|September 19, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|October 17, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|November 21, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|
|December 19, 2021||2:00 – 3:30PM PST|